My parents knew a wider range of people than most, and so we had actors, journalists, politicians, planters, sportsmen and women and business folk all coming in and out of the places we lived in. Although my parents were not wealthy, they lived a legendary and amazingly cosmopolitan life.

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Every Sri Lankan, and almost every visitor to Sri Lanka, carries a longing for the place in some small form - hiraeth, the Welsh call it - wherever they go and whatever their background. It binds them however much the war and politics might try to divide them.

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War Politics Car

Sri Lanka is an island that everyone loves at some level inside themselves. A very special island that travellers, from Sinbad to Marco Polo, dreamed about. A place where the contours of the land itself forms a kind of sinewy poetry.

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Travel Poetry Love

For me, there is urgency in fiction, even though writing is, in itself, an act against the corrosiveness of time.

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Time Writing Urgency

As a youngster, I think I said I wanted to be a journalist, but that's a disguise for being a writer.

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Youngster Young You

Cricket fans all over the world probably have more in common with each other than with their fellow citizens.

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Zen World Wit

In the sense that writing is to retrieve the past and stop the passing of time, all writing is about loss. It's not nostalgia in the sense of yearning to bring back the past, but recognition of the erosion of things as you live.

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Time You Yearning

I don't think there ever will be a biopic on me! I would much like some of my books to be made into films.

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Would Will Think

In writing, I try to find the right balance between momentum and infinity, truth and beauty.

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Truth Mom Men

I was thinking of writers living in East Europe before the Berlin Wall came down. They wrote fantastic stuff but were dealing with a situation that was almost impossible to deal with, but they found a way.

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Wrote Writers Writer

Sri Lanka is a part of my background: it's not where I live, but it's what I want to explore. And I find it works very well to explore through fiction.

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Work Art Works

You might want to write 'War and Peace,' but that might not be who you are. You might be better off with nursery rhymes.

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War Peace You

I've met writers who wanted to be writers from the age of six, but I certainly had no feelings like that. It was only in the Philippines when I was about 15 that I started reading books by very contemporary writers of the Beatnik generation.

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Art Age Writers

I want to keep an inner life alive and, with luck, somebody else's, too.

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Life Wit Want

When I was growing up, I don't think I knew any other child who had been out of Sri Lanka.

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Wing Win Who

My first inkling of what the Commonwealth might really mean came only when I escaped the oddly British-tinged Asia I had known and went to live in the Philippines.

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Wealth Tis Tin

We live in a world which is changing very fast. What seems contemporary now will be historical in two years.

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Years Year World

Most childhoods are full of anxiety, but that tends to get smoothed over, so you have a sense of nostalgia.

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You Tends Tend

My writing has been shaped by the three countries - Sri Lanka, the Philippines and England - I have lived in.

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Writing UN Tin

The nationalist movement supported Sinhala by suppressing Tamil; there were competing nationalisms. It was a fundamental mistake to make parallel streams in education - or a calculated political gamble. Politicians were playing with it.

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Pet Men Education

Writing is incredibly important to me as a way of handling the world, understanding how it works.

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Work Writing World

It seems to me that we live in dangerous times all over the world: we have the technology to remember everything but a desire to forget the troubling and to seek the safety of numbness. Fiction can do something about that.

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Whether it is better to forget and let wounds heal or remember and learn from the past is a crucial question for all of us, wherever we are.

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To my mind, forgetting is a risky strategy for living. Memory is essential to us. It is DNA. We need to remember, and we need to imagine. That's why we have books, writing, fiction.

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If you are writing something, you automatically create a certain distance. It can be very little. Even within the same city you imaginatively have a certain distance from your subject, and at the same time, you have to have a connection.

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Who controls the present controls the past. There's a power structure, if you like, between the present and the past and the future, and that's what I'm interested in.

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A novel means a new way of doing a story. If you go back the origins of a novel, 'Clarissa' - that's not a novel; it's just a bunch of letters. But it isn't! Because it's organised in a particular way! A novel is what you make of it.

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A passenger on a road journey is in the hands of a driver; a reader embarking on a book is in the hands of a narrator.

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Whether we live in Sri Lanka or Malaysia or India, the U.K. or the U.S., we face similar issues of understanding, remembering the past that has made us and seeing the future we want.

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Language is the means by which we negotiate our relationship with time.

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I believe if a sentence is to retain its strength over time, it needs to be carefully made.

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People who read fiction are different from other people because they are people who are interested in an imagined world.

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I don't think I knew I would be a writer. I wanted to become a writer, and I tried to write.

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With 'Noontide Toll', I wanted to cater to a single story but also collectively more than a single story.

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I was very lucky - it wasn't a question of being wealthy; my father was just extremely lucky with the couple of jobs he got. So we got a chance to travel when nobody else could travel.

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At 16, I started reading trashy stuff, anything slightly naughty and risque.

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I never expected to earn money out of writing. In fact, the idea of getting published was too bourgeois. Then, in England, I realised that writing a book was something you could do without it being laughable.

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The old idea that you grow wiser as you get older, and you learn from your elders, is actually completely wrong.

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I like inventing things when I write rather than autobiography.

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I probably felt most out of place as a young kid growing up in Sri Lanka. My mental world was somewhere else, partly because of reading and daydreaming.

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Novels are the means by which we can escape the moment we are imprisoned in, but at the same time, the roots of a novel are in the world in which it is written. We write, and we read, to understand the world we live in.

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I grew up in Colombo but was lucky enough to spend a lot of time in the countryside as well. Although there was considerable turbulence, even in the 1950s, it did not throw a shadow on my consciousness.

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My parents knew a wider range of people than most, and so we had actors, journalists, politicians, planters, sportsmen and women and business folk all coming in and out of the places we lived in. Although my parents were not wealthy, they lived a legendary and amazingly cosmopolitan life.

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Sri Lankans of every kind, overwhelmingly the poorest, have been bombed by one side or the other for decades.

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I must believe that in words we will find what in fury we cannot.

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'Commonwealth' is not a word I ever used growing up in Colombo. There, in the late 1950s, it would have meant little more than New Zealand lamb and Anchor butter at the cold stores.

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To come to England in the 1970s was to return to this strange other-world of half-known history. I found the imperial architecture curiously familiar: the post office, the town hall, the botanic gardens.

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In London, I discovered a peculiar building by Holland Park where the globe was shrunk to fit a British perspective, but which had a library with Sri Lankan books I had never seen before.

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An aircraft cabin is a place that seems to be nowhere, but I find it steeped in the place left behind and the place ahead.

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Two of the first plays I saw after I arrived in Britain were 'King Lear' in Liverpool, and 'Antony and Cleopatra' at Stratford. One was produced with hardly a backdrop and the other with gigantic scene changes. I was impressed by what connected the two: the words and their life beyond the stage.

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I find anonymous music frees me best. Chinese pop can be perfect. I can't decipher anything on the CD label; there is nothing I can hang on to.

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