I don't know that love changes. People change. Circumstances change.
Nicholas Sparks
Romance is thinking about your significant other, when you are supposed to be thinking about something else.
Loving once and only once is possible - anything is possible.
My wife, my family, my friends - they've all taught me things about love and what that emotion really means. In a nutshell, loving someone is about giving, not receiving.
Publishing is a business. Writing may be art, but publishing, when all is said and done, comes down to dollars.
I think that enduring, committed love between a married couple, along with raising children, is the most noble act anyone can aspire to. It is not written about very much.
In all love stories the theme is love and tragedy, so by writing these types of stories, I have to include tragedy.
The first thing I did when I sold my book was buy a new wedding ring for my wife and asked her to marry me all over again.
I do not use profanity in my novels. My characters all go to church.
I have certain moral parameters that I do not cross in writing; I don't write about adultery or kids having premarital sex.
Focus in on the genre you want to write, and read books in that genre. A LOT of books by a variety of authors. And read with questions in your mind.
Spreading the news is your duty as a Christian, and there are many ways to do this.
I'll admit that it's not easy to get an agent, but becoming successful in anything requires perseverance.
I read over a hundred books a year and have done so since I was fifteen years old, and every book I've read has taught me something.
I have a great wife and it's very easy to be romantic because it makes her happy and then my life is so much better when she's happy.
Dramatic fiction - William Shakespeare made his biggest mark writing dramatic love stories.
I think, above all, the characters in my novels feel universal to the readers.
I'm writing a new love story, set in eastern North Carolina. Surprise, surprise, huh?
Writing the last page of the first draft is the most enjoyable moment in writing. It's one of the most enjoyable moments in life, period.
All characters come from people I know, but after the initial inspiration, I tend to modify the characters so they fit with the story.
I suppose I'm most influenced by any good, commercial writer. I learn from everyone.
Rekindled love is generally short-term.
I would be rejected if I submitted any of my novels as romance novels.
A typical agent in New York gets 400 query letters a month. Of those, they might ask to read 3-4 manuscripts, and of those, they might ask to represent 1.
I think that men know how to romance a woman and most do it well, at least for a time, otherwise women wouldn't marry them. The problem is that most of them begin to rest on their laurels.
There's always pressure, a great deal of pressure, when writing, since my first books were so successful.
Over time, quality work will lead to an audience for your work.
Above all, a query letter is a sales pitch and it is the single most important page an unpublished writer will ever write. It's the first impression and will either open the door or close it. It's that important, so don't mess it up. Mine took 17 drafts and two weeks to write.
I suppose more than anything, it's the way of life in this part of the country that influences my writing. In Eastern North Carolina, with the exception of Wilmington, most people live in small towns.
By reading a lot of novels in a variety of genres, and asking questions, it's possible to learn how things are done - the mechanics of writing, so to speak - and which genres and authors excel in various areas.
What's the challenge in writing a novel that few people will read? I'm more than happy writing what I do and have no plans to change that.
I write 2,000 words a day when I write. It sometimes takes three hours, it sometimes takes five hours.
None of my characters are rich or famous, and the situations they find themselves in could happen to anyone.
To be quite honest, I've been very blessed when I've worked with Hollywood. The studios that have purchased my work to be adapted to film have really liked the work and wanted to stay as close as they could to what the book was.
Because publishing is becoming more business-oriented each day with more examination of the bottom line, it's harder to break out than ever.
If you look for me, I'm in the fiction section. Romance has its own section.
I don't write romance novels.
I very seldom, very seldom, even know what my characters look like.
