It's two different brains: the mom brain that's, like, selfless and ego-free, and the on-stage 'Look at me. Like, listen to my song. Hope you like it.' There, it is all ego.
Domino Kirke
Though I always experimented with electronic music in the past, I wasn't invested in that sound. My heart has always been in folk. That's my home.
Lipstick just makes me feel like I can't talk, like I am going to suffocate - like I've been locked in a cupboard and can't get out. I'm so aware of it.
I got married, and it was a bit of a whirlwind I wasn't expecting for the next phase for Penn and I.
I'm obsessed with any kind of floral print.
When I sing, I feel calm.
Growing up, I feel like my character was so much about being a problem-solver and a truth-seeker and always needing to get to the bottom of everything.
I was always interested in becoming a midwife. Then, at my own birth, I didn't get the support I'd hoped for, and that changed everything. That's why I became a doula. There's such a need.
Penn and I want to write a record together.
One of the expectations growing up was that I'd become a well-known artist.
Being a full-time musician back before I had my son, it was sort of too much 'me' all the time. I felt like a bit of a narcissist, always doing just my art - even though I feel like artists are doing a service as well. I needed something a little more literal, instead of writing music and hoping people enjoyed it.
I feel like doulas put the ball back in the mom's court. They trust you to normalize the high drama.
I am a sucker for an old pair of Levi's and a worn-out shirt.
I love a jumpsuit, and I have a bunch of them. I'm known for wearing them like a uniform.
Being in a band was so fun and exciting, but I was just kind of focusing more on performance and wasn't really writing the songs - I didn't really think I had a voice.
I didn't set out to write pop hits.
When I met Penn, he was an actor, but he wasn't working, and he wasn't sure if he wanted to go back to work, and I was kind of into that!
I got to play with incredible musicians, but it happened really fast. I couldn't believe it was all happening, and so by the time I was, like 18, 19, I sort of took a break and was just like, 'I'm not ready for this.'
Mark Ronson was a dear friend through family and through growing up in New York, being in that scene, and Mark came to a show and really liked it and asked us to join his record label Allido records, or 'all I do' records, and that was sort of a development deal.
No one listens to CDs anymore. Who even owns a CD? I used to bring my CDs to shows, and it was, like, a guarantee that everyone would buy one. Nope! Not anymore.
I was sort of getting used to being a single mom, maybe a little too used to it.
I've always put out EPs because I had a kid and never had the time to tour and do what it takes to support a record.
I'm still a really shy performer and can't wear high heels and need to be with bare feet.
My son's birth was pretty life-shattering, in good ways and bad ways. I realized that I needed a doula because I'm not close to my mom, and I don't have a lot of people in New York.
I'm not like, 'I'm a famous doula.' I'm a doula. I'm trying to find a way to get rid of the stigma around 'You're the singer; You're the actor' - we have to be able to do more than one thing.
The idea of windows, that's so symbolic to me within labor. And I'm always opening windows during a birth. If someone's been in labor all night and they're exhausted and sort of over it, opening a window or drawing a curtain can change the game. And sometimes the doula is the first one to suggest it.
I had, like, four Sigur Ros records on my playlist when I was in labor.
I moved to the States from London when I was 12 years old. My father was in a band and wanted to tour, so we moved here, but it wasn't until I moved to Williamsburg and had my son that I felt like I finally belonged.
I grew up always around music through my father - I would play in music studios with him as I was growing up - and my high school, Fiorello H. LaGuardia High School of Music and Art and Performing Arts.
I put on a little bit more makeup when I perform.
I grew up around a lot of artists and people passing through. I learned so much from them. I felt the safest with them - and the most endangered.
I had to learn to respect the relationship my son had with his father outside of the three of us.
'In Ear Park' perfectly encapsulates the beauty of youth for me.
Big Thief is destined for greatness.
I have always been more of a truth-seeking person since I was quite young.
What I learned is that it's very hard to have both a family life and a touring life simultaneously.
The work I do when I'm not making music is very much about service, helping women give birth or aiding in family planning.
People should listen to my music if they just want to know me better.
I try to wear a dress and heels when I want to make more of an effort and be a bit more feminine.
In my family, it was always encouraged to become a creative person. I became a doula instead, then I married an actor, and my sisters became famous almost overnight.
My dad was such a music fan that the only way to really hang out with him was to sit in a room and listen to music.
I think when you come from a house full of artists, everyone's got their niche.
I felt this pressure to just be the singer in my family or the musician in my family. But once I had my son, I was like, 'No, I can do all of it.'
Listeners can expect to feel very relaxed during the listening experience of 'Beyond Waves.' The songs are very lyrical and extremely intimate, so I feel like you're going to need to be in a quiet room when you hear them, at least the first time.
Music is everything.
I knew from a very young age that I wanted to be in that world. But I also understood that being a touring musician meant that you'd be gone a lot and that was going to make other things a lot harder, like having a family.
I toured. I played, I was in that world so intensely, and then I had to bow out.
I was always interested in midwifery; it was my plan B.
I grew up in a family where my father was in a rock band, and I saw and heard every story.
I just believe pregnant women need a familiar face, someone who isn't related to them who they may have all this emotional past with, to be there, just for them, during the birth.
