Acceptance and tolerance and forgiveness, those are life-altering lessons.
Jessica Lange
The natural state of motherhood is unselfishness. When you become a mother, you are no longer the center of your own universe. You relinquish that position to your children.
I regret those times when I've chosen the dark side. I've wasted enough time not being happy.
For me, nothing has ever taken precedence over being a mother and having a family and a home.
The only place I've felt was really my home is my cabin up north. There's something in the water there that connects me to that place. There's also this sense of isolation and loneliness about it that I've never been able to shake.
I am tortured when I am away from my family, from my children. I am horribly guilt-ridden.
This idea of selfishness as a virtue, as opposed to generosity: That, to me, is unnatural.
I like playing characters who are out there on the edge, where they can explode at any moment or fall off the precipice.
In families there is always the mythology. My father died when my kids were quite young still, and yet they still tell his stories. That is how a person lives on.
To my mind the election was stolen by George Bush and we have been suffering ever since under this man's leadership.
I've never been a sunny personality. I've never been outgoing. I'm a solitary person.
TV is sort of the only way to go for an actress my age to make a decent salary; with independent films, you just can't.
Families survive, one way or another. You have a tie, a connection that exists long after death, through many lifetimes.
I have been a waitress, and I was a damn fine waitress too, let me tell you.
There's something magical still about it when I get in a darkroom, and you've shot a roll of film and you develop it and you look at your negatives, and there's, like, imagery there. That always stuns me.
If I didn't have children I'd be a much better actress. I wouldn't be so distracted. I could pour 100 percent of my energies into it, to promote the investigation which acting is.
If you're really in the process of photographing, you are absolutely aware. You are looking.
I have made decisions based from purely an actor's point of view.
There are no explanations, there are no answers.
One of the things I love about acting is that it reveals a certain something about yourself, but it doesn't reveal your own personal story.
I love being a mother. I loved being a daughter, a sister, a wife. I love being a woman with men. I love having given birth.
There was that feminist myth that we can do everything. I don't think you can.
When I am home for like a two-year stretch, I get antsy, because I want to work.
To work on the actual location I think is great. This thing of going to Canada and pretending you're in New York, it's terrible.
I've got nothing left to lose at this point. The work I've done is out there.
Box office success has never meant anything. I couldn't get a film made if I paid for it myself. So I'm not 'box office' and never have been, and that's never entered into my kind of mind set.
I do love acting. But to work as a photojournalist would have been extraordinary.
I've worked with some teachers and coaches over the years, but I didn't really study theater or technique or voice or any of that stuff extensively.
For me, acting was always a way to explore emotions - to dip into the well and really try to reach rock bottom down there. That was the most exciting part of it. I hadn't found anything that really allowed me to do that until I came upon acting.
I had never done Shakespeare before, but I don't think you can be an actor and not do it. There were moments when I thought, I'm just not going to be able to pull this off.
It comes down to something really simple: Can I visualize myself playing those scenes? If that happens, then I know that I will probably end up doing it.
It was easier to do Shakespeare than a lot of modern movie scripts that are so poorly written.
Your children are grown and your career has slowed down - all the stuff that took up so much attention is gone, and you're left with expansive time and space. You have to reimagine who you are and what life is about.
The worst is when I talk myself into something. Sometimes you take things because you want to work with a certain actor, or you want to work with a director, even if the script or the part's not that great.
Photography was a blessing because it filled my time. If I had to start over, I'd pursue photography - probably to the exclusion of acting.
To work with a director that has emotional commitment and passion toward the characters, and the piece, and the experiences, it only enriches your work.
What I love about photography, and it's the same thing I love about acting, really, is that it forces you, like, right into the moment, where you can't be distracted, where you can't be, like, thinking about other things or ahead of yourself or behind yourself.
I never think of the future. I never imagine what comes next.
At a certain age, death becomes familiar to you-or a loss becomes familiar-the tragedies that are more commonplace in life.
I worked on my voice for Sweet Dreams, but only to match my speaking voice to Patsy's actual singing voice. That was my way into that character.
I never shot on sets, but if I was traveling somewhere or on location, I would always have my camera, and I'd always be - it's that kind of fly on the wall approach to photography, though. I don't engage the subject. I like to sneak around, skulk about in the dark.
Successful model? That's a myth. The year I modeled was the most painful year of my life. Editors would always talk to you in the third person as though you were merely a piece of merchandise.
Because Shakespeare's language is so expansive, we're under this misconception that it's difficult. But I discovered that it's easy because it's so brilliantly written. The words are perfect, and the language is intelligent and very emotional.
Sometimes the odds are against you-the director doesn't know what the hell he's doing, or something falls apart in the production, or you're working with an actor who's just unbearable.
Allow the diversity to exist. There is nothing wrong with it. Hell, we put up with the religious right-we can put up with transgendered human beings.
I never felt like I belonged in Minnesota when I was growing up there. That's why I was out the door as soon as I turned 18.
I've been thinking a lot about next year, which will be the first time in 25 years that I don't have a child at home.
Sometimes parts just come along when it's the perfect time for you to do them.
To stay interested in acting, I have to keep trying stuff I've never done before.
We are not the originators of the story. I think it's actually the opposite when you're an actor. You're telling somebody else's story.
